Is it really possible to fall in love more than once?  Or do we just try and convince ourselves that we are in love again so that we don’t have to deal or face the fact that we will never be with our true love again.  Is it a way to deal with the pain, the longing of being in that person’s arms again by pretending to be in love again… or is it that once you’ve broken up with someone you miss them so much that you mistake that with love…  What is love???  Does it last forever?  I have so many questions about Love, falling in love and being in love…

I sometimes think people mistake obsession with love, there are just so many crazy people who truly believe they love someone but in actual fact they are just obsessed with that person.  Do couples love each other equally? Or is it true that one partner always loves more than the other one?

There are so many people who don’t end up with the person they love and end up settling… Why is that?  Surely God wanted us to be with the one we love… that’s the way it’s supposed to be… So why isn’t it that way?  I think pride plays a big role in why people who truly love each other aren’t together.  You find that the one was weak and hurt their partner unintentionally (because that’s what the devil does he will tempt you and destroy a good thing), and then the other person will not forgive their loved one due to pride, will rather move on and seek love somewhere else… knowing that they still love that person but their ego’s just wont allow them to take the person back.  Is it really worth it? 

How many of your friends have you seen getting married to someone they don’t really love simply because they were hurt by the person they love and they choose to settle for a safer option… Is it really worth it?  Don’t we deserve to be happy?  Shouldn’t we choose happiness over everything else? I mean life is really too short to live your life miserable. 

How do we get this right then? I say swallow your pride, forgive, don’t be afraid to tell someone how you really feel about them.  Not everyone will end up with his or her true love but that doesn’t mean you should stop trying.  And remember it is never too late.

Later…