So it’s taken me a while to blog about this… simply ‘cause women are so complicated.  It’s a day after Valentines day and it being the month of love it got me thinking about this. So why do women cheat?

There are so many reasons, and I’ll try and cover a few now. The main reason why most women cheat is for emotional needs, women need attention and intimacy from their partners.  If they not getting it from their partners they’ll look for it elsewhere.  Women need and desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and emotional attention.

It’s easy for a man who is self absorbed and comfortable in a relationship to forget that his partner also has needs, needs to be loved, to be thought of, and cared for.  He can't always be the receiver… yes women are nurturers and do the caring and looking after their man’s needs which makes some men expect to always be on the receiving end. They make everything about them, and make it seem like they are all that matters… only they are important and they take their woman for granted.  This then makes the woman feel unappreciated and vulnerable.

Another reason why women cheat is… Boredom. The routine is the same over and over again. You are no longer on the same page. You barely have anything in common. You are feeling emotionally distant from him. You find yourself looking at other prospects and fantasize about being with someone else. You begin to feel excited, something you haven't felt in "forever", just thinking about it.

And then you get those women who are into material things and chase men for money…  These kind of women will go for whoever has more money or whoever spoils them the most, and they will justify their cheating with… “Well he treats me better and takes care of me, I don’t even have to ask for money, he just knows he has to give me money”.  If you have a materialistic woman, chances of her being and staying loyal are very slim.

But don’t mistaken a "gold-digger" with a woman who expects a man to be a provider, to be ambitious and work hard to be successful, ‘cause that is the role of a man.  It even says so in the Bible: "But if any man does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. " 1 Timothy 5:8

Hope this gives you some insight on why women cheat. Treat your woman right, respect her and you won’t have to ever worry about her cheating on you.

Later…