Gareth Brown

Society has become so sick that it constantly judges... especially mother’s.  If a child is naughty or chooses a wrong unlawful path in life... who does society blame?? The mother!  You always hear things like “Does he not have a mother? Where was the mother? mother this and mother that... 

It has become so bad that mothers are constantly feeling bad about everything.  If you’re a working mom, it’s a bad thing ‘cause you should stay home and raise your kids, never mind that you’...

This is such a delicate topic and I don’t really like to get into it, but it is something that has really been bugging me lately.  I am a God fearing woman, who by all means tries to live a life where I respect and love fellow human beings regardless of their race.  So when someone kills or treats another human being badly simply because of the colour of their skin it puzzles me and it got me thinking...  If more people knew God none of this nonsense would exist... how humanly are you to ha...

You probably don't think there are any reasons to enter a beauty pageant, but I'm here to tell you there are many reasons why you should! A lot of people think that it's all about the big hair, beauty, walking around on stage, and being plastic! I'm here to tell you that what you watch on TV like "Toddlers and Tiara" aren't true! These are the real reasons why you should enter a beauty pageant... take it from me a former Beauty Queen.



1. BUILDING SELF-CONFIDENCE
The number one ...

So it’s taken me a while to blog about this… simply ‘cause women are so complicated.  It’s a day after Valentines day and it being the month of love it got me thinking about this. So why do women cheat?

There are so many reasons, and I’ll try and cover a few now. The main reason why most women cheat is for emotional needs, women need attention and intimacy from their partners.  If they not getting it from their partners they’ll look for it elsewhere.  Women need ...

The new year has started and we are blessed to still be here, healthy, rested, willing and able to achieve greatness.  2015 might have been great for some and challenging for others but whatever you went through last year, make it a point to make 2016 a great year!  Start by removing all the negativity out of your life, set yourself goals and work towards achieving them.  The best way to achieve your goals is to setup timelines and deadlines.

People close to me know that I a...

This is a question many women have asked for years and men have given all sorts of explanations as to why they cheat… Some say cause there is just too many beautiful women, or because my woman doesn’t treat me right or lacks certain things etc…

So what if a man has a beautiful woman, who is loyal to him, is a hard worker, educated, intelligent, makes her own money, can cook, is good in bed, is basically the perfect spouse… Why would her man still cheat on her?

I thi...

Of course you are. Personal brands are very important, yet underutilised. Authentic personal brands are more powerful than inauthentic personal brands.  Be true to yourself! 

Your authentic qualities will attract the right people and if they repel some, don’t let that bother you, that is just God protecting you from people and opportunities that are not good for you.  

Get your mind off trying to be something or someone else, and concentrate on just being you. Become your brand. Authentic bra...

You would think after all these years in an apartheid free country things would be better.  You would think that we would all have equal opportunities in life and that the colour of your skin wouldn’t be a determining factor.  Lets face it… race still plays a large role at who gets what and who deserves what.

Will this ever change?  I really don’t see it happening soon… and what can we as ordinary South Africans do to bring upon this change?

I’m s...

Is it really possible to fall in love more than once?  Or do we just try and convince ourselves that we are in love again so that we don’t have to deal or face the fact that we will never be with our true love again.  Is it a way to deal with the pain, the longing of being in that person’s arms again by pretending to be in love again… or is it that once you’ve broken up with someone you miss them so much that you mistake that with love…  What is love???  Does it las...